Dated A Psycho Lesbian?

topic posted Wed, April 25, 2007 - 11:06 PM by  Unsubscribed
I'm just curious if anyone out there has ever dated someone they would term "A Psycho Lesbian"? This is the woman you date who seems normal at first and then ends up making your life a living hell! Horror stories anyone?
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    Thu, April 26, 2007 - 1:52 AM
    oh yeah!
    I thought it just goes with the territory
    or maybe i just know how to pick 'em
    I'd tell ya all about it but what if SHE's on tribe?
    I guess I don't think it would be fair of me anyways
    to tell in a public forum about someone else's worst behavior!
    I still love her anyways.....
    not LOVE her
    but i care about her
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    Thu, April 26, 2007 - 6:19 AM
    Wait a minute, this assumes I've never been the psycho-lesbian in the past.... Which I am sure at some point (particularly in my younger club days) I was. One womans psycho is another's true love!

    My favorite psycho maneuver an ex of mine did to me was super classy. She was bi*, and after we stopped dating she began dating a neo-nazi skin-head boy who decided that he wanted to 'deal with me' in his own special way. Yes... that was my personal favorite. Nothing like a bunch of neo-nazi's coming to my workplace to 'chat' with baseball bats. Fortunately, it didn't come to blows, just a little bit hairy for a moment or two. The bright side of this story is that when the boy and my ex stopped seeing each other, he came back to apologize, no longer was a part of the neo-nazi crowd (to the extent any former neo-nazi really can be and still be living), and (funny this part) wanted to commiserate about how crazy she was. Yeah, weird.

    My second favorite was the woman who wouldn't leave me alone, and would make plans for me and her even after we stopped dating and would get mad and yell at me in public when I didn't show up to these dates any longer even when I would say no. Oh yeah, that one is fun.

    Maybe these don't count as truly psycho? maybe not. Only one stalker, and that would be the second.

    *her sexuality only plays a part in this story because she went from me to a boy, and the boy, well...
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      Mon, April 30, 2007 - 2:55 PM
      I found out that one of my psycho lesbians was married when her husband showed up at my workplace....surprise! Well at least he was an old hippie instead of a bat wielding Nazi!
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    Sat, April 28, 2007 - 2:23 PM
    Yes. She was fine til she drank, and then she was not. *Really* not.

    Did something happen, Hester?
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      Sat, April 28, 2007 - 3:59 PM
      Ack! Actually I've had the misfortune of dating 2 psycho lesbians. The first went nuts one night and chased me with a carving knife through downtown Oakland (this is a quintisential Psycho!) The second neglected to clue me in to the fact that she had spent time in the local mental ward. She seemed fine until she moved in and then They both were as normal as anything...until they moved in! Normally I am the first to pickup on potential "psycho-ness", and considering the amount of mad women I've read about in novels: I am perplexed as to my lack of intuition!
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    Tue, May 1, 2007 - 7:41 AM
    Hester
    Don’t blame yourself; even the best “psycho meter” isn’t always accurate. The psycho people out there employ great marketing skills, they only show you what they want to you see and then release the reality after it’s too late. The best defense is time. The longer you hold out on the move-in invite the harder it is for them to hold in the crazy!

    Remember, Ted Bundy was described as a charming, charismatic guy.
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      Tue, May 1, 2007 - 10:57 AM
      too true! my ex celebrated our 6 month'ish with cooking me a nice meal and as we toasted our fine wine that i bought for the night she said..." 6 months and your not psycho." i was like, i am so not toasting to that, she tried to convince me that it was a good thing, but i was like...well your becoming psycho! how bout, 6 months and we still love each other? yeah...another 6 months and it was over...sheesh!!!
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        Tue, May 8, 2007 - 8:00 AM
        I am not sure if my girlfriend (or maybe soon to be ex girlfriend) is psycho or maybe I am or maybe the whole relationship is just making us both crazy. There are no knife chases going on, a little stalking on her part, once I had to have her removed from my home by the police when she came home drunk and angry and would not stop screaming in my face.
        She no longer lives with me. But I miss her.

        Maybe I am the psycho. I guess if you are not sure that is a bad sign...right?
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          Sat, June 2, 2007 - 4:49 PM
          Well... having to call the police is a good sign that it is mostly likely her... but you're psycho if you take her back cause you miss her... that is usually the moment one goes from sane to loco...

          I had ONE date with this woman who told me her entire dating history and then decided that I was the one and got crazy angry when I told her I wasn't sure I felt the same. It took MONTHS to rid myself of her.
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            Thu, June 14, 2007 - 3:59 PM
            Maybe your right I'm a psycho too.
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              Sun, July 22, 2007 - 9:41 AM
              Well months later (a stupid thing on my part) we are finally done and over with. She had nothing when she moved in with me and I had a sane conversation telling her she needed to take care of herself and get her own place and and car and maybe we can still see each other and she flipped out again...yelling screaming, accusing...crying etc. I took all her clothes and put them in two black trash bags and put them in the yard and told her goodbye and I would not talk about it any more. She calls and calls and calls. She has a place to stay so (shes not homeless..I have been told she was a couch jumper..) I am ready to get my phone # changed. I don't think there is any resolution. The only good thing was the incredible sex, but I think that comes along with codependancy and the fact that I am also Bi Polar with didn't help the whole relationship.
              But I finally did it. Shes gone really gone this time but I can't say I won't miss the sexual part of our relationship. That is so pathetic.